it seems there are two conversations going in this thread and I'd like to add to the disorganized mess part--I know exactly what you mean! as far as the cleaning goes, I went months with my house out of control. I kept my pets' cages clean, but that's about it. I felt like they deserved a clean home, yet somehow I didn't? I like the timer idea. I also will also treat myself with a good show (usually Gilmore Girls reruns on the weekend) and force myself to get up and clean every time there was a commercial break. it's amazing how much cleaning you can get done in small increments! #babysteps