Perna, there is a ton of information regarding this situation that I left out in the interest of brevity. I talked to her family because she is emotionally unstable and I am afraid she will have a breakdown if I confront her. I live 6 hours away. I cannot be there to pick up the pieces but I wanted someone nearby that could. Ergo, I called her only family in the area.

Things are not always as simple as they seem.