I have a potential long distance relationship on the horizon.

My bf was accepted into graduate school on the other side of the country. The area is not very good for my field, but he was offered a scholarship for for the first two years. He'll need to be there for 5 years.

I don't want to go there and be miserable, but I don't want to stand in his way of opportunity either. I don't think either of us will be able to afford to travel back and forth, and he will be extremely busy with school. I'm sad Don't know what to do or if I can take the distance, and I don't think he is willing to stay here for me, not that he should. In my heart I want to ask that he does, but I can't be that selfish.

I don't know how the two of you do it but bravo to you. Stay stong!