Not sure what DRA is but in the AA rooms and AL-anon you would pick a sponsor who seems the most informed, someone who reaches out to new people and follows the steps. You can always ask around to see if they can recommend someone to you. Its always better to have someone of the same sex as you as well. If its not a good fit, and sometimes it may not be, you can always get another sponsor. Nothing is set in stone. What's important is your recovery!!
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