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I’m not sure if this is helpful, sometimes I stay away from posting because honestly I have no clue myself or on other people and their feelings and experiences. So I just don’t know how to reply or be of help to that person. This is the only reason I wouldn’t reply to someone and I am sure that is the only reason why people wouldn’t reply as well or not seem sincere. I sort of understand as I am very negative person to myself, I would just tell myself well people are going to say what I’ve written above to make me feel better but it just so I just cheer up and don’t feel bad or something along those lines. However this is not logic but the negativity taking over when you dismiss a thought or comment which would be logical. It is hard to think over wise when you don’t know how or use to thinking a certain way. I don’t have the answer to this myself and searching for a fix to this as well. I don’t honestly think people wouldn’t like you here on the pc and I am sure they are more than happy to help you if they know how to be of help and they probably feel bad for not being able to help you or able to advise you. Not sure if this is an answer and I am sorry if I wasn’t of help to you. I hope you can feel at ease with yourself soon and wish you all the best.
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