I have a fairly new friendship that I'm working on building now, and I simply CANNOT relax. I keep feeling compelled to pick or push, to interrogate, to withdraw, to do SOMETHING. I want to grab this person and yell, "Why don't you love me yet?? Make up your *******ed mind or get lost!" Which would not be very conducive to continuing friendship! I'm feeling some aggression and hostility rising as I begin to believe that this person is "holding out" on me. It has only been a couple of months, AND she's an internet friend.