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Old Mar 09, 2012, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge View Post
on wanting to be pushed: I resent it, I need it, so it's yes and no at same time. I think the Ts have a word for this.... "ambivalence"

I want T2 to push me, when the day comes that I need a push; but when that day comes I also know I will push back.
But even "pushing back" is progress. You've taken an internal conflict and made it a conflict between you and T. A lot of people are afraid of that, but it really is a step forward. Because when you clash with T, T can help you work out what it is about.
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