Are you sure it was your being bisexual that she was referring to, and not that you had an affair when married? Perhaps it was clearer in session but from what you've write maybe it was misinterpretation? I hope you can talk to T about it and work through it.

Everyone has their own beliefs and that's fine but I know for me it's important I share a similar philosophy and idea of spirituality with my T, because the nature of therapy and delving into such deep issues it seems bound to come up at some point.

I think Ts need to be careful sometimes when expressing their personal opinions and beliefs, especially if they aren't the most open minded or tolerant. Or, take the client's lead on these issues. I mean, aren't we supposed to be able to tell our Ts anything without the fear of being judged? There's that whole 'unconditional positive regard' thing they're meant to have going on, isn't there? Hmm... maybe the blank slate has its place, eh?