One thing I've learned about people who sincerely and totally believe that their way of living is the only way--religious or any dogma--is that they can't see things other than the way they have been taught or believe. I think you can email if you believe that it will help/assist you in dealing with this serious and harmful wound she has inflicted, but know from the start that she will proabably see it entirely differently than you do. I'm so sorry she took this road with you, Chopin. No one deserves this kind of wounding thrust!