I have to be honest.. I stopped reading after a couple posts. But what caught my eye was that you said that she didn't stop -- that she kept going back to him. But guess what, she did stop. She made the statement that she was in fact stopping the f-buddy routine. And then she found you. So you cannot go and say that she hasn't stopped or broken this "habit" because she has, as far as you are concerned.

Next point. If and when you break up? Seriously? If that's already in your mind, set the poor girl free to find someone to really love and care about her and forgive her imperfections, cause everyone has them, even you.

Sorry, i had to say those things, they were distracting me. Now i"m going to go finish reading it. I'm sorry if someone already pointed these out or if I missed some major development because I rushed to the end.. I'm going back now to read it all, I promise.