Hi xrainstormx,
Minors don't get privacy rights? I didn't know that. I would think they would unless one of the parents are abusing them and they would need to discuss those issues with them.

Is there a friend you can talk to? Another counsler you could go to that may not be a "counsler" but someone who'll listen-someone like a teacher or an aunt, cousin, ect...?

How are your parents and friends putting you down? Could you be hearing what you think they mean and not what they are actually saying? A low self esteem can make you think people are being mean to you but they aren't. Or maybe they were just kidding and being playful not realizing how sensitive you are feeling.
Please, stay safe. Hugs!!!