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Originally Posted by learning1
Making an internal conflict a conflict with your t is progress?  I thought it would work the other way around- taking the responsibility for whatever the ambivalence or internal conflict is about onesself. I am curious about this though
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If the conflict is internal, it is very hard for T is see what's going on.
Also, internal conflict is often non-verbal, and that makes it harder for both of you.
Of course, there are ways to examine an internal conflict without clashing with T.