Thanks so much for responding WantToHeal

Oh, please, babble away in any post you like.
Thank you so much for the information and the support.
He encouraged the group to work together and how that really can work out best for everyone involved. I almost felt like he was directing that at someone else inside as he spoke..kind of strange. I felt such a calmness while he was talking. He told me that I could call him and email him if I needed.

New T told me in quite uncertain terms that I could not participate in therapy with him or would have to terminate with her - kind of scared me. So, not sure about contacting him again.
Thanks again for your post