No need for "shoulds", Delicatefade Just hang in there, kiddo and stick in there for as long as it takes . .. sometimes it's longer than we want it to be, but it's still worth it in the end. I'm glad you have a committed therapist, someone who gets it wrong sometimes, but basically cares (and is willing to admit when he gets it wrong) and someone who wants to help! Keep us posted on how things are going!