Sex is really scary and complicated for me. My bfriend told me he would stay with me even if we NEVER had sex again. The funny thing is we both have high sex drives. He just cares for me and my psyche more than sex, and i go through periods of time where i cant. The
less i'm pushed, the sooner i'm able to be intimate again. I guess every person and couple is different. For me, i have to be loved even without the sex-- then the sex flows. Sometimes. I'm really trying.