being alone is hard and can be lonely. most everyone I know is happily married with kids. they don't have time for me. the longer I'm living alone, I wonder if I can ever live with anyone else. I'm so set in my ways. I wanna watch what I want to watch on tv, I have a certain way of doing things and I don't know if I want to compromise. on one hand I'm happy to be alone and live the way I want to live. on the other hand it's lonely at times.

a lot of times I feel like my life has passed me by. I should have tried harder when I was younger to find someone and now it's too late for the husband/kids/happy household.

I feel your pain!