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Originally Posted by jax01
My T always asks new parts questions like those. But especialy, what's the date? how old are you? Boy or girl? She feel it's very important to find out when they think now is, and how old they think they are.
A few of my others refuse to talk to her because they don't want her to know anything. but they don't want anyone, including me, to know about them.
I have a teen other that is very defensive about whether she is real or not. She doesn't like to hear anyone say she's not real.
I always wonder if any of them are real, but i have serious denial feelings.
My T says the denial is coming from a part that's job is to not believe, and convince others not to believe. especaily me. She says my others are pretty easy to pick out, and tell from me. But I don't know about that.
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I think asking questions about their age, gender, or day are fine. I don't think that is the issue for me. I seems that some of my alters are only familiar with their task and become confused trying to understand questions about things out side their task. The confusion is disturbing to them and causes them to feel unreal. Maybe that is a good thing. I don't know. They are real but they are only a part of me. I don't think they know that. Maybe if they become aware of others they might have more choices. But in the moment all they feel is confusion.