Pleasd know that the "Thanks" and "Hugs" I've posted above, for the replies, are most heartfelt, and I feel supported by your input, each of you.

I got to the "Flylady" website, and it looks like it addresses the problems I'm having. I don't know enough about using the Web to get past that initial webpage to other things, like a radio show. Something about I have to go through Facebook. I don't understand that, but I will try and learn. I managed to join the "FlyLady wannabeez Social Group," and I look forward to the support that I trust the group will be a source of.