I'm married, but attracted to women, it's not something I really accepted until not so long ago.....but the way it is for me, the choice is made, and I want to honor my commitment to my husband. He does seem to understand that as we've discussed it in our couples therapy.....he accepts that whatever I may feel about my sexual orientation within, I have made my choice to be with him, I do love him and am going to be faithful - I don't want to cheat. I allow myself now to have a few fantasies though.