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Originally Posted by cristin34
So I've been having this specific concern for over 5 months or so I believe and it is until today the day I will talk about it. Me and my boyfriend are in a committed relationship. I am 20 years old and he is 25. I am studying for an engineering title while he neither works nor studies. My sex life when I met him was normal I had sexual desires, but suddenly the idea of having sex with him makes me nervous, and even sometimes I feel repulsed over thiniking about it. I know its not normal for someone my age to avoid having sex all the time, but I insist the problem is with him due to the fact that I find myself fantasizing about other guys
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Where in the world did you get the idea that "I know its not normal for someone my age to avoid having sex all the time"? Unless you are studying for a domestic engineer title, you should have a lot of studying to do, which would give you little time for constant sex with a layabout who is too old for you. While it may not be fashionable today, I'm going to encourage you to put your sexual activities on hold until you are mature. Now is the time for you to concentrate on your education and emotional maturation; when you are finished with your education and able to support yourself is plenty of time to find a man who is close to your age, also educated and supporting himself and capable of, and wanting to support a wife and family.