Sometimes it is hard to know what is just a 'passing thought' and what is really something we need to discuss. If I have a random outrageous thought like, "I wonder if she does this or that when she has sex?" That is not something I think I should say to her, is it? That stuff is just curiousity we all have. Thoughts that come and go in our minds.

Sorting through which thoughts are valid to my therapy, and which ones are just human nature, is where I get confused. Where is the line? I mean, sometimes I have to urge to get in her face and tell her off. I wouldn't do that. But should I tell her that when I feel like I am having the urge to do it? What would be the point? It could be that I was just having a hard day and it has nothing to do with her or the therapy session.

Picking and choosing my words is difficult for me. We have to censor some things, don't we? If we blurted out every thought that came to us, we would all be in trouble!

If I blurted out the sexual thoughts I have at times ..... let's just say that would not be a good thing!