Sending lots of hugs, Chopin. I agree that one more time reaching out should be fine - just explain that you're really upset and concerned about your relationship, which is very important to you.

In the interim... for your drive, download a funny podcast to listen to or plan a phone date with a friend. Do something today special to take care of yourself... buy yourself a little treat? take a long bath? I know it's hard, but distraction is good and for now, believe what will help you get through until you see her. You're not totally sure, so choose to believe that all will be OK, there was a misunderstanding, and you can work it out. And please know that if you can't work it out, there are other wonderful Ts out there. This happened to me - I had someone that wasn't good for me and I believed that only she could help me and we had a special connection, but then I found a T that is so, so much better for me and we have a very healthy relationship built on mutual respect, trust, and love.

Again,