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Chopin99 · Mar 12, 2012, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by eastcoaster

Sending lots of hugs, Chopin. I agree that one more time reaching out should be fine - just explain that you're really upset and concerned about your relationship, which is very important to you.

In the interim... for your drive, download a funny podcast to listen to or plan a phone date with a friend. Do something today special to take care of yourself... buy yourself a little treat? take a long bath? I know it's hard, but distraction is good and for now, believe what will help you get through until you see her. You're not totally sure, so choose to believe that all will be OK, there was a misunderstanding, and you can work it out. And please know that if you can't work it out, there are other wonderful Ts out there. This happened to me - I had someone that wasn't good for me and I believed that only she could help me and we had a special connection, but then I found a T that is so, so much better for me and we have a very healthy relationship built on mutual respect, trust, and love.

Again,

Thanks, east. I know there are other great T's out there. I've just got to try to make this one work for now and see what happens.

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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

Cheer up Chopin, Thursday will be here before you know it. Go out of town concentrate on work, let this go, for awhile..just to get you to Thursday!

Thanks, Lola. I'll try.

I'm sending one last email until Thursday:
I know I said I wouldn't email again, but so many people are telling me not to put myself through more undue stress than I already have and to send you this email. I'm breathing, walking, working, spending time with friends, trying to distract and take care of myself, but I am not doing well. I'm upset and hurting. I'm worried that I won't/can't heal or that you can't help me.

I think my question is simple: can we get through this? Can you please, please answer this question before Thursday?