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Originally Posted by hankster
idk. why should a 10-yr old have to "compete" with a grown woman for her father's attention? or, why is a grown woman competing with a 10-yr old? where was your own father when you were growing up? I am glad you are getting help - this could be better worked out in therapy, so you don't keep repeating the situation unsuccessfully IRL. 
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I don't think I want to compete. I really don't even care if he loves her more than me and I'm happy he wants to see his daughter. I just don't want to be sent away from my home because he thinks I'm not good enough or whatever. Anyway we still aren't getting along and I've pretty much decided to stay at my moms for a while. I'm starting to think I can't fix it and maybe it'd be better to end our relationship. And no I didn't have a dad growing up. I'm 26 and he hasn't been in my life since my parents divorced when I was 3...but I don't really think I care my mom was a good mom and she's always been there for me so at least I have her.