I don't think she sees it that way, and I don't mean on right-to-life. You give her too much credit. You may be open-minded but that doesn't mean other people are. I think what happened in session is, she saw you vulnerable, and started preaching. She may see it as God's plan that you are staying with her so she can save you. If THAT is her belief, is she obligated to inform you that that is her plan? Or is it "God's plan", so she doesn't have to tell you anything? So it comes back to my original question, which is psychoanalytical, why do you need to hear words from someone who doesn't feel them? What is this REALLY about? What was phony in your upbringing, or something like that. It's being acted out in these questions of faith, instead of dealt with psychotherapeutically, IMO.