On my side, I live with a room mate, going to school full time, have two jobs. Nothing really else... well except maybe I have a family member whom I take to meetings about their psych thingy sometimes, related to their school and learning.

On his side, he has a part time job.

I'm not sure how stuff like traveling, jobs and work have to do anything with sex in a relationship... JLarissaDragon O_O. Could you explain? I would get that traveling and being far away from each other for long periods of time would make sense. Other than that... nope. The "There are a lot of factors to consider..." doesn't really ring a bell in my head.

But I feel Scotty204 is right. "It's important to find someone who is on the same level as you..." I often ask him questions about what he likes about other women and stuff. I've told him he could be with someone else if he's so unhappy. But he's determined to stick with me and that's just making him miserable. As Scotty204 says, "it may not work out very well."

It feels like a disaster waiting to happen. By the way, does anyone else (asking mostly towards the females) kinda just shut down and drop asleep during sex? Just wondering. [I'm not saying that my partner is a bad lover or anything.]