welcome to pc abc. Your husbands depression you say stems from the stress at work... is there a way for that to be resolved for him? My husband also has a great deal of stress in his life and is unhappy. Though he will not admit it. Just stand and be supportive to your man. Let him know that you are there.... and remember to try to not get caught up in it. You yourself are going through a lot, pregnancy is hard enough on your body and hormones, so take care of yourself also... I don't think I have helped you much here but I certainly hope that you will continue to come to PC as this is a great place with many good people... Take care and congrats on your pregnancy....Linda