I think you're spot on, Ani. People who feel that a specific type of wording has ANY effect on their disorder usually have more of a problem with it... If you need to word something specifically so you feel more in control, that's a key signal that you're not comfortable with yourself. Not like I expect anyone to love being Bipolar, as it's not all unicorns & rainbows, but embracing oneself (flaws included) is a lot more than semantics. It's internal. And if you're fine with yourself internally, why does it matter how you word it?