There is absolutely no way I would criticise his mother at all, I respect him too much to do that, to those who read it and said I was man bashing, read it carefully, I merely said that I was trying to make him understand a little of why she is the way she is, gently and with kindness to try and help him realise that she is the one with the problem not him. I respect my man greatly as he has turned out to be an absolute diamond, a men amongst men. Maybe I shouldnt bother posting my concerns about my mans wellbeing.