SeptMorn I am glad you are posting again, I would have been upset if you had gone away.

Things happen, people get past it, after a while people don't even think about it anymore. Your history of helping and kindness here are what people remember, so don't overthink it too much.

I hope you realize that my "stepping back" was not in judgement of anyone, I just wanted to let it pass so we could "get back to normal here." After a few early posts I realized that any post, constructive or not, was just pushing things further along. I would have PM'd you if I knew you better. I hadn't suspected that you had some personal things going on at the time. At a few points I was going to PM you anyway, but I never had the guts before everything settled down anyway.

As far as I'm concerned you can take that bag off of your head (cute smilie though!) and join back in... from my point of view it is not as if you left and had to "reapply" now or anything. I'm just glad you are OK and recognizing and working on the things in your personal life that are stressful. This is a "safe" place and I don't think you need to explain or apologize or even ask for your way "back." You are a member here and we have to accept each other as we are even if the road is occasionally bumpy, so there is no need to feel embarrased or afraid. You won't be welcomed "back" by me because you are, you always have been, and you always will be welcome in my eyes. Sometimes we're all just in for a bumpy night!

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-- Dave
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