I still do not like the "Again", as if you didn't get it the first time or are slow :-) If she has that policy she has no business continuing to respond via email! From what I've read of this and other of your posts; I still think the two of you are personally incompatible and it will be lots harder working with this T than if you chose one that didn't have so many subtle ways that anger you so you wonder if it's you or Memorex

I was a mess and my T was calm and quiet and did not "fight" with me. All the little ways that we don't get along with a certain person can add up! I learned my "style" from my stepmother's and my relationship and it took a person wholly unlike my stepmother to, very slowly, get me out of that mess.