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Originally Posted by autumnleaves
So this isn't just today and it doesn't particularly bother me, but I thought her choice of words was interestingly blunt. My T regular refers to orgasming, or masturbating until completion, as "getting off". Anyone else have a similar experience where the words T used were a little unexpected?
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Choice of words can be upsetting. And it might bother you on a deeper level than you realise.
You could ask T, "Instead of saying X, please say Y"
On the other hand, if a phrase is triggering, it might be worth exploring it.
How do you feel when T says that?
Who else says that?
How does it feel when
you say it?
etc.