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Old Mar 13, 2012, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Chopin99 View Post
It's funny; it seems all will be well, once I get past this anger at her related to the email thing. It seems I don't understand what the boundary is. She once told me that she might have to tell me someday that I'm emailing too much, but it wouldn't be because she is angry, pissed, because she thinks I'm crazy, etc. but I read anger, or at least a modicum of being "irked" into the email.
There were better ways for her to say that. Eg:

"This is a big and important subject, and email is not strong enough to carry it. Please keep it for our next session. I will listen and I will not judge you. I embrace your anger."
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