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Old Mar 13, 2012, 05:49 PM
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Exception of not being here to speak for herself.
Exception made. None of our T's can defend themselves here, mine included. I am not trying to disparage her in any way. I love the woman, but she's irking me right now.

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But from your report of things, she can't keep her story straight re: bisexuality. That would concern me as much as it would anger me. Can she not remember what she told you, or does she not have a firm position?

What do you think--are your personal or professional assessments of her reassessing?
Personally, I'm not sure. She says she believes the Bible is the inerrant word of God, and the Bible says it's wrong. I'm unsure if she is merely conceding (out of respect for me, fear of losing me as a client, etc.), forgetting what she said about her own convictions (...need new T ASAP), or completely changing her mind, but I would suspect the first.

I don't care what she believes. She just needs to be open-minded and respect my POV about the issue. She is usually pretty open-minded in her therapy, but her conservatism has slipped out a few times. Nobody's perfect.

I'll give you a really funny POV about it; I was telling my H that people oftentimes judge others for traits/faults they find within themselves. H said that maybe T is actually a closet bi...she is pretty touchy-feely...LOL!!!!
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