I'm BPD,when I was under 18 I had one night stands.But at 18 I had a baby.At 21 I married.From age 18 there just were no one-nighters for me,my focus was my baby.But,I understand wanting attention and intimacy.I guess it is a trait common among BPD'ers,but,look at the rest of society.So many w/o the dx all doing the same.I don't think you should judge yourself harshly.At the end of the day,who and what you are is determined by more than your sexual liasions,yes?