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Originally Posted by Squiggle328
Thinking back on the new thread I started last week http://forums.psychcentral.com/showt...=219464&page=8 (erotic transference), I remembered this thread. The one thing that I just could not tell her was that SHE was the main character in the sexual fantasies. I can't believe that I finally told her. If you read the other thread, you will see that she wasn't surprised. She actually gave a very good explanation about why she felt I was making her the focus.
It took me 4 months to get it out, but I did it. Now I will have to see where this takes me. Will we ignore this and act like its no big deal? Or will we continue to talk about why I am doing this? Only time will tell. |
Can I ask what her explanation was of your T being the focus? Or is that too personal ?
I'm just in awe that you were able to say these things. I worry that my T might get embarrassed and fall out of her chair if I said anything like this stuff. Really, I worry more about her than me.