My T literally asked me "what gets you off?" the other day. I was like... uhhhh...
then answered. She's also asked me what kind of porn that I watch and why I find it enjoyable. and she asked how horny I get when certain things happen from a scale of 1-10, 1 being eh, and 10 being ohhhh yeah!! So, yeah. personal stuff.
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"Just as a jewel that has been buried in the earth for a million years is not discolored or harmed, in the same way this noble heart is not affected by all of our kicking and screaming. The jewel can be brought out into the light at any time, and it will glow as brilliantly as if nothing had ever happened. No matter how committed we are to unkindness, selfishness, or greed, the genuine heart of bodhichitta cannot be lost. It is here in all that lives, never marred and completely whole."
Pema Chodron