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Originally Posted by widgets
What are your experiences with this?
I have one night stands and justify them to myself, because i know i'll never have a boyfriend, so does that mean i'm never allowed sex?
They dont do much for your self esteem, but as long as i am completely in control i think i have the strength to cope.
Not really sure what my question is.....
Is one nighters a BPD thing? Or am i just awful?
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I've had one night stands. Always after break-ups. I told myself I needed to just have sex without getting attached to anyone (I tend to get overly-invested in relationships).
I actually started dating my current boyfriend after we had a ONS. Crazy, huh?
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age: 23
dx: bipolar I, ADHD-C, tourette's syndrome, OCD, trichotillomania, GAD, Social Phobia, BPD, RLS
current meds: depakote (divalproex sodium) 1000mg, abilify (aripiprazole) 4mg, cymbalta (duloxetine) 60mg, dexedrine (dexamphetamine) 35mg, ativan (lorazepam) 1mg prn, iron supplements
past meds: ritalin, adderall, risperdal, geodon, paxil, celexa, zoloft
other: individual talk therapy, CBT, group therapy, couple's therapy, hypnosis
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