For me, masturbation was a good topic to bring up -- and it was SOOO hard to do so and I've only spent one session on it with a T. In fact, I should bring it up again... Yes, it's personal, but for me who has never been in a romantic relationship (dated several people for a few months each) it is an important part of my sexuality, really the only part. I have body image issues and so masturbation is a way for me to learn to feel better about myself this way. No one ever talked to me about masturbation, didn't know that so many women did it--just men. Certainly not my mom, so when I started doing it (not until I was 26 or 27 after a conversation with my best friend at the time who was surprised how little I knew about it) I felt guilt but also immense pleasure, so it was confusing. Since I never learned to talk openly about sex, talking with a T about this is good for future relationships I hope to have. Hmm, add this to the list of upcoming topics to talk about...