I wonder how many real crimes were being committed while the cops were busy with your husband. Almost everyone is prejudiced to some degree but when it's practiced by authority figures it just becomes much worse. Being in Chicago I'm thinking there may be some ethnic angle to this. Anyway my main thoughts are for you. I'm not nearly as unwealthy as Mrs Romney but I'd like to help. I can't ask for your address obviously but maybe the site could set something up?
I won't BS you that things are going to change. If the racial makeup of your community or this country were different, I think the only thing that would change would be the race doing the profiling. Sad but true.
Take care and let me know if there's anything I can do.