Yeah, men just process things differently. Couple that with mental disorders & it can get kind of crazy. Not entirely bad, but it can take some chiselling to get to the surface. If I'm going to be with someone, I need to crack them all the way down to their core. I'm a bit on the intense side. So it can be difficult to see eye to eye, even despite the fact that I process things differently than most girls anyway. My last actual relationship was 3.5 years. He was really emotionally sensitive, but acted like he wasn't so he had this big "bad boy" facade. Would flirt with other girls to get attention, would never give me my due appreciation, & refused to take anything seriously because it was too much for him... *shakes head* But... It varies from person to person. If you want a relationship again, best of luck, if not, can't blame you.