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Mar 15, 2012, 10:03 AM
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Member Since: Nov 2011
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Originally Posted by argv
I don't know if this is a bipolar trait, or something else. Does anyone have a difficult (and I mean very difficult) time with the words "I love you?" Do you feel like you're lying when you say it? And when someone says it to you, do you automatically go "why?" or "What do you mean?" I might not say it out loud, but that's what I'm thinking.
I'm just curious, it just came up cause my sister said she "loved me" and it always makes me cringe. haha
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I don't think that there is a connection with having a difficult time saying "i love you". I can say it to relatives but it's harder to do so with a man.
But this may be a trait - For me, when I'm in a relationship, it's difficult to accept it when someone says, "i love you". I have asked my bf several times "Why?" with my face scrunched up like "really? why would you love me? what is your motive? are you just saying that?". Every single time I ask why he says, "are you serious? you don't know why?". I can't accept it. In all honesty, I feel like I'm not loveable when it comes to men. And that's not to say it in a way as "woa as me", it's just my reality. For now. Maybe it's him. Maybe it's me...Who knows...
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