(((((((((Seeker))))))))))))
I'm sorry you are going through this, I can only imagine how difficult it is. I am sending peaceful thoughts to you
She is a little girl, and she probably has a lot more going on than we know of.
When you are 12 you really don't know a lot about the world, especially if it is a small community. She probably felt scared, and obiligated to go along with what was happening when she met the man. She may have never thought he was going to hurt her or her friend.
NOt every kid is the same, not every kid is taught to avoid strangers, to be careful etc. Placing blame on this little girl is just wrong. She didn't make great choices no, but she didn't ask to be hurt.
Our choices have consquensces, but saying these 12 year old girls know better? is that even the point of this story? Of this post?
They are little girls, LITTLE GIRLS! Not everyone is blessed with having super involved parents, or being taught the dangers of the world. In some communites these things don't get talked about, they are taboo.
Why don't we think before we post and realize this is a support community not an argument over what two 12 year old little girls should and shouldn't know, what may have happend etc.
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