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Old Mar 15, 2012, 02:57 PM
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I think the main reason the wedding is stressful is because I'm planning it from a different time zone. I live in the midwest with my fiance, and the wedding is in New England. He tries to help where he can, but it's really hard when you're working or in school when businesses are generally open. My mom works a lot too, so she helps when she can, but isn't that often. My bridesmaids are completely scattered. One in Ohio, one in Wisconsin, one in NJ, one in NY, one in a different part of NY (neither of them have cars), and one in Massachusetts.

The last big thing we have to do is the invitations, which I'm working on with my cousin (who is also a bridesmaid). When I go back to New England for spring break, her, my sister, my mom, and I are all going to work on the invitations and get them done. After that, everything else will just be details. Hopefully the load will get a lot lighter at that point (though school will probably be getting more difficult).

I think part of my problem is that I think I might be anemic again. I know I'm prone to it, and have taken iron pills twice in the past for it. So I think I've just been exhausted both mentally and physically. I've started taking all my vitamins again, and I think once they kick in, I'll be feeling a lot better.

I think the reason the wedding is stressing my fiance out is only because it's stressing me out, lol.

(Can you tell I'm feeling a lot better today..?)

Thanks for the suggestion, though! I wish I had someone in my family that baked, that'd be amazing! My future mother in law hasn't really even stated an opinion on anything, not even my dress when I showed it to her! And my mom is just plain too busy, lol. Thanks again, though
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