I don't think anyone is sticking up for the guy Anika. It's just that he obviously is not very bright and probably not much more mature or sophisticated than the 12yo. That's just an observation... it isn't meant to defend him or condemn her. What he did was illegal and he is going to be in jail for a long time I think. Realistically I don't see how you eliminate the possibility of something like this happening. Society probably is deteriorating but kids had sex when I was a kid and kids had sex when my father and grandfather were kids if you define kids as 12 to 15 years old.