My mom as described above leaves voice messages on my phone saying she doesnt know what shes done to me , shes feeling sad and in complete denial. I realised to grow n stay happy i am unable to have contact with her.my sisters still do.they have sad dysfuntional lives as they are manipulated by her still. I finally ceased this relationship after soul searching n reading.its so liberating. So is this typical of a abuset, living thrir whole lives in denial?