I have to tell you my hubby and I don't spend time together at night. He either is on his computer and me on mine or he is watching tv in another room. I know without a doubt he loves me but we don't have alot in common. I know he is just in the other room...and I can identify with other needs not being met. I remember the time I could walk into a room and him get all excited if you know what i mean. but I think/feel it is due to my weight gain and that is my problem...he says his feelings haven't changed but hey I ain't stupid!

Good luck hon and know I am here anytime for you.