Hmmmm, this is a hard one actually, I agree that we all need some quality time with our partners, sometimes, maybe they are waiting for the first move? I usually walk past mine when he is on the pc and I give him a kiss on his bald spot and hug him from behind and then wander off leaving him with a big smiley face, i come wondering back with tea or coffee and get a lovely big smile and huggles back. Hardly any words are said its just in the eyes and the smile and the way he says thanks darling........... ooooooooh oooooooh, i'm loving it!!

Good luck mate and here's a hug from me to you.