candybear, i admire you! I have a friend that had a son 4 years ago this july she knew that she couldnt care for him and chose to give him up for adoption.. So many people shuned her for doing this.

To me, this is the most unselfish act of love there is...
your post made me cry. You are a mother no matter who was there so kiss the boo boos and make them feel better! I admire you so much!!!!!

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