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Old Mar 16, 2012, 09:31 AM
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This is a good question to ask. For me, I chose to work around it and think about how it can happen and how children don't understand it and how looking back as an adult can be difficult because as adults we DO know more and it is important that we make sure that we truely understand that when things did happen we did not truely understand what it all meant.

I have not discussed the details myself to be honest, I didn't want to relive it, I just wanted to understand how to learn how to resolve my feelings about it.

It depends on what bothers you and if you truely think you need to discuss the details.

Take this slowly and space it out and do whatever helps YOU.

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Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
precious things